2. Go for your dreams: I often say that the best time to discover oneself and have a clear cut direction in life is while one is still single. Don’t suspend your life because you are waiting for the knight in shining armour to rescue you from the castle or because you are waiting to give snow white the kiss of life. Get a life, a good one while waiting especially for Mr. Right. Don’t bring your life to a halt simply because you are waiting for a spouse, rather move on and the spouse will locate you on the path.
Go for that degree- your spouse may just be waiting for you in that same institution. Go for that training, go for that professional course, start that business, go for your dream house, develop and improve yourself and become “the right person” instead of waiting for Mr or Mrs Right. The advantage of the single life is that you have more time in yours hands unlike the married who are encumbered with responsibilities.
I’m not oblivious to the fact that a great deal of the society is uncomfortable with the thought of a single lady driving an exotic car or having a house of her own. I believe strongly that this is one of the reasons why a lot of single ladies don’t go for their dreams simply because the society believes that such ladies will find it difficult getting a spouse. I believe it takes a man with a low self-esteem to get intimidated by a successful woman and it takes a lady with a bad attitude and character to disrespect a man simply because she is successful.
To the single ladies out there- be approachable, humble and pleasant. Disrespect, a bad attitude and pride are repellants to men.
To the single men out there- be confident, don’t be laid back but have a vision or goal you are pursuing.
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